Dating your husband during separation

13-Oct-2016 15:51

Can you FORCE your wife to be happy with you inside the marriage? You can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do without some sort of mind control. Marriage is a two-person relationship, and you can only control one of the two people in your marriage.There is one and only one thing that you can control: YOU! You can’t control your wife and you can’t force her to change. What’s the very first thing you MUST do to get your wife back? I know, it sounds backwards, but this mindset actually puts you in a win-win position.Here's a list of 5 key things you MUST do, to ensure your next relationship is hassle free and a potential success!Step #1: Secure your own separate residence from your ex-spouse.Hail is pattering against the window and you can already hear the lightning crackling in the distance.The radio warns that the storm of the century is leaving a path of destruction through the city, and now it’s headed your way. You go outside and stand on your porch, protesting into the wind, “Don’t come to my house, storm! ” Or maybe you beg and plead with the wind, “Please storm, I’ll do anything! " You accept that there’s nothing you can do to stop the storm, so you get your family to safety ASAP.

Step #2: Be sure you're over the marriage break-up Getting over the pain and hurt of a break up for many is a challenging and difficult task.(If you have any questions about this, please read the completely out of the blue, my husband checked out of our marriage.Without going into very personal details, he was pretty darn certain about this decision and only wanted any debate to be who was getting what and how to do it as quickly as possible so that we could go our ways.You only have 10 minutes until the storm is right over your house... You gather your wife and kids down to the basement and you stay there safely until the storm passes.No matter how loud you yell or how desperately you beg, that storm isn’t going to skip over your house. This may seem like a strange example, but this is exactly where you’re at in your marriage right now…I’m willing to bet that when it comes to getting your wife back, you’ve been focusing on things you can’t control...

Step #2: Be sure you're over the marriage break-up Getting over the pain and hurt of a break up for many is a challenging and difficult task.(If you have any questions about this, please read the completely out of the blue, my husband checked out of our marriage.Without going into very personal details, he was pretty darn certain about this decision and only wanted any debate to be who was getting what and how to do it as quickly as possible so that we could go our ways.You only have 10 minutes until the storm is right over your house... You gather your wife and kids down to the basement and you stay there safely until the storm passes.No matter how loud you yell or how desperately you beg, that storm isn’t going to skip over your house. This may seem like a strange example, but this is exactly where you’re at in your marriage right now…I’m willing to bet that when it comes to getting your wife back, you’ve been focusing on things you can’t control...Sure, we’d had our issues, but once upon a time, we were in perfect sync and truly happy, and nothing like the situation on our hands now. So, I panicked and went on a single handed — through threats, through begging, through desperate, (and now embarrassing) behavior.