Too quiet and boring dating

21-Dec-2016 18:23

Have you ever socialized with a person and after a while felt that you just didn’t enjoy it that much?

You couldn’t put your finger on exactly what it was, but the person you spoke to just came off as boring or annoying.

The few times that I had attended parties like that (always motivated by the need to prove something), I got dizzy, bored, tired, and irritated. I did Internet research on different ways to start a conversation.

Voices in my head despairingly begged me to get out of there as soon as possible. It was a reminder that being me was “wrong” and that my level of fun was practically nil. I imagined myself dancing around, talking to strangers, and laughing loudly. Everybody was there, in their element, and I stayed in a corner of the living room watching everyone with my eyes wide open, almost scared. This “having fun” thing always made me feel inferior.

By adjusting your social energy correctly, people will start being drawn towards you because they will feel more in tune with you. However, people who are better at adjusting it to the person they talk to have more and closer friends. It goes from negative to positive and from low to high.

(Don't hate becuase it's yaoi)The day started out like any normal day.

It seemed so calm and peaceful; something that rarely happens nowadays.

I am totally satisfied with him (more) and am not as outgoing and together as he perceives me to be.

This is my question: He has completely stopped communicating.

By adjusting your social energy correctly, people will start being drawn towards you because they will feel more in tune with you. However, people who are better at adjusting it to the person they talk to have more and closer friends. It goes from negative to positive and from low to high.(Don't hate becuase it's yaoi)The day started out like any normal day.It seemed so calm and peaceful; something that rarely happens nowadays. I am totally satisfied with him (more) and am not as outgoing and together as he perceives me to be.This is my question: He has completely stopped communicating. When I heard those words, I imagined the whole scene: drinks, snacks, music, and people talking loudly and laughing as if there were no tomorrow.