Dating my sister

07-Jul-2017 23:09

My sister started dating my best friend a couple weeks ago, and it's hell.It just feels like betrayal, like my friend chose my sister over me.It's destroyed my friendship, and definitely taken a toll on my relationship with my sister.By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.When I tell people about this situation, everyone thinks it’s wrong. They say I shouldn’t have a problem with it since I’ve been happily married for 13 years and that it was over a decade ago when we were teenagers. I understand you’d be hurt that your sister is dating your high school sweetheart, but I find it more difficult to understand how you’d be upset with any female close to you dating any ex of yours, regardless of when you dated him, how serious you were, what the break-up was like, and what your feelings for him are now.Not every relationship is created equal, and you shouldn’t apply some silly “code” to all of them as if they are.I figured it’s been 15 years, we’re both grown adults now and yes, part of me wanted him to see just how fabulous I turned out.

And I can't really confide in either of them because they tell each other everything, including my secrets. Its a little complicated issue when you date your bestfriends sister. You should have a talk with him/her that you really love his/her sis and care about her. if she hates you dont dump him if you love him just tell her to grow up im going out with my bestfriends twin and she didnt like me but i told her its up to dylan(my boyfriend) and not her and now we are all friend Tbh I think it's a bad idea. Or he is just being defensive about his sister (all bro/sis becomes defensive when it comes to their sis). May be he isn't comfortable with dating his sister cz something of the past?If you ever start falling for your sister’s boyfriend’s brother, STOP YOURSELF.He could potentially be your brother-in-law before he’s your husband.

And I can't really confide in either of them because they tell each other everything, including my secrets. Its a little complicated issue when you date your bestfriends sister. You should have a talk with him/her that you really love his/her sis and care about her. if she hates you dont dump him if you love him just tell her to grow up im going out with my bestfriends twin and she didnt like me but i told her its up to dylan(my boyfriend) and not her and now we are all friend Tbh I think it's a bad idea. Or he is just being defensive about his sister (all bro/sis becomes defensive when it comes to their sis). May be he isn't comfortable with dating his sister cz something of the past?If you ever start falling for your sister’s boyfriend’s brother, STOP YOURSELF.He could potentially be your brother-in-law before he’s your husband.They’ve been a part of their family way before you. It’s a strange concept to think that if you have to work on the weekend when they leave town, your brother or sister will be there in your place.