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26-Jul-2017 06:57

Don't be crude."It sounds simple and unnecessary to say, but you would be shocked at how many guys don't realize this. Something you think isn't even crude, she could find repulsive," says JR Gudger, bartender at New York City's popular beer-soaked bro-country nirvana Brother Jimmy's and member of The Barnstorm.3. If you’re going to pick up a girl in a bar, always have cash ready.

"Bribes generally aren't good openers," says Steve Yorsz of Rochelle’s in New York City.2.

Picking up people at a bar is a time-honored tradition. We talked to four of our favorite tenders of bar — from Rochelle’s in New York to Greco’s in Frisco, Colorado — about how to better approach the late-night post-drink pickup. Stop trying so hard.“When guys focus on having a great time with the people they came with to the bar or restaurant, girls tend to gravitate toward that great time. "I think the hardest thing is not to come across as too keen, so body language is important too,” says Billy Pirie, who tends bar at U. And don't give your number out on a napkin to every girl who walks in, just ask them for theirs! Pay attention to what she orders.“No matter what she's drinking, always buy her a shot of whiskey. If you pick something that's a tad odd for the place and she overhears you order, that might even be enough of a segue to get chatting.9. Always be friendly to the group, but engage with her the most to make sure she knows she is the target, not her friends.

More often than not, it’s also an exercise in failure. It reminds me of a craps table in Vegas; when the table is hot and exciting, that's where people are gathering,” says Johnny Welsh, who tends bar at Greco's Pastaria in Frisco, Colorado, and is author of Weedgalized in Colorado: True Tales From the High Country. But if she is drinking Red Bull, don't bother,” says Yorsz. “As long as you’re cool, she will break away from the bunch when the time is right,” says Yorsz.10. Be polite to the bartender and friendly to anyone with whom you interact.

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“That way if she wants to leave with you, you won't get held up waiting for the bartender to close your tab,” says Yorsz.4. Usually when girls see that a guy has a good rapport with the bartender, they’re more likely to relax.

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I remember one time when I said hello to a woman I met in a club and then I immediately froze and didn’t know what to say.

We then stood there awkwardly for the next few seconds until her friends finally took her away.

“That way if she wants to leave with you, you won't get held up waiting for the bartender to close your tab,” says Yorsz.4. Usually when girls see that a guy has a good rapport with the bartender, they’re more likely to relax.

It seems like a curiously analog idea in a world rife with dating apps: hiring an old-fashioned, flesh-and-blood matchmaker.

But when you’re a single tech-world millionaire, chances are you need a dating strategy slightly more refined than simply downloading Bumble.

I remember one time when I said hello to a woman I met in a club and then I immediately froze and didn’t know what to say.

We then stood there awkwardly for the next few seconds until her friends finally took her away.

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